This post speaks to child abuse, neglect, trauma, and the emotional toll of teaching in these conditions. It is intended to validate what teachers are seeing and offer practical, trauma‑informed strategies—not to blame. Please take breaks as needed, and seek supervision, counseling, or peer support if stories or examples hit close to home.
Teachers spend more waking hours with children than most adults, especially those from troubled homes. You act as confidants, first responders, and witnesses to the silent suffering of abused, neglected, or traumatized students. Your choices—what you prioritize, how you communicate, how you handle challenging behavior—change a child’s life. This chapter draws on stories, expert interviews, and research to outline what teachers can do, obstacles they face, and why it matters.
In brief: What can teachers do?
Teachers can transform traumatized students’ lives by recognizing trauma as common and real, teaching and disciplining through a trauma‑informed lens, building authentic relationships, adapting academics with flexibility, taking mandated reporting seriously, working as a team with school and community professionals, creating classrooms that buffer against trauma, and caring for their own well‑being so they can keep showing up for kids.
- Recognize Trauma as Real and Common
Trauma is common in classrooms. ACEs data and frontline experience show many students bring serious adversity to school, so teachers should expect it. Child safety / classroom safety depend on it. Signs include hypervigilance, withdrawal, aggression, absences, sleeping in class, or perfectionism; “problem students” often endure violence, neglect, or home chaos. Trauma alters brain systems for attention, memory, and emotion, so disruption stems from chronic stress, not just limit-testing. When children disclose, teachers may be the first adults they tell; respond with belief, calm reassurance, proper reporting, and support—not doubt or investigation.
- Teach and Discipline Through a Trauma‑Informed Lens
Trauma-informed teaching strategies are essential for modern classrooms. Seek training from school initiatives, organizations, or districts, and collaborate with counselors, social workers, and nurses for tailored strategies. A great deal of useful information about Adverse Childhood Experience (ACES} is available online. This 3-minute ACEs video from the medical community should be required viewing for all educators.
Zero-tolerance policies worsen outcomes; suspensions raise risks of failure and justice involvement for traumatized youth. Use restorative practices, mediation, and relationship-building with clear boundaries to reduce issues over time. Shift mindset to “What happened to you, and what do you need?” fosters understanding and repair without excusing harm.
- Build Authentic, Trusting Relationships
For many children, teachers are the only steady, caring adult daily. Consistent actions, greeting by name, noticing issues, private check-ins build trust and encourage effort, disclosure, and help-seeking.
Validate student voice with sharing opportunities, choices, and goal-setting to counter trauma’s helplessness. Separate child from behavior; “pushing” may test reliability. Say, “I don’t like what you did, but I care and won’t give up”—it’s transformative. Address intersections with race, culture, poverty, disability, and identity through self-reflection and cultural competence to avoid stereotypes.
- Support Learning With Flexibility and Practical Help
Trauma causes disorganization, memory issues, poor focus, or shutdown, requiring adaptive academics. Offer flexibility—breaks, seating changes, alternative assessments—to prevent escalation and sustain engagement.
Use differentiated instruction, scaffolding, and progress celebration over perfection for forward paths. Watch for basic needs like hunger or fatigue from home; connect quietly to food programs, clothing, or services without shame. Communicate early and strengths-based with families: highlight positives, frame concerns collaboratively to build partnership.
- Take Mandated Reporting Seriously—and Push for Better Systems
Teachers report because they see what others miss. Know laws and procedures; report promptly on reasonable suspicion of abuse, neglect, or self-harm. Gather facts but avoid interrogation; document observables only. Overcome fears of retaliation, inefficacy, or pressure by uniting with unions, associations, or advocates for safer, clearer systems protecting children and reporters.
- Work as a Team With School and Community Professionals
No teacher handles all needs alone. Hold regular confidential meetings with counselors, social workers, psychologists, and nurses to share insights and coordinate. Refer freely when classroom limits are reached. Leverage community resources like CASA, advocacy centers, crisis nurseries, mentoring, and nonprofits for services schools lack. Knowing local “who does what” connects students effectively.
- Create Classrooms That Buffer Against Trauma
Classroom climate can heal or harm. Build predictability with routines, simple rules, visual schedules, and change notices to ease anxiety. Teach self-regulation via mindfulness, breathing, feeling-focused read-alouds, and discussion circles to normalize emotions and reduce shame. Integrate movement—breaks, stretches, fidgets—for students who can’t sit still, turning energy productive. Foster peer support through buddies, mentoring, or reading pairs for inclusion and positive models.
- Practice Self‑Care and Collective Care
Teaching traumatized children causes vicarious trauma, fatigue, and burnout. Prioritize personal self-care—sleep, boundaries, reflection, supervision, outside life—but seek collective support too: debriefs, mental-health access, and leadership acknowledgment of the work’s toll. Advocate for wellness like manageable loads, planning time, peer support, and secondary trauma focus to sustain schools.
- Educate Colleagues, Families, and Communities
Extend awareness beyond classrooms by sharing learnings in meetings, development, and talks with colleagues. Host family nights explaining ACEs, mental health, and resources plainly. Support systems change for more counselors, social workers, and trauma policies at school, district, and legislative levels—your frontline voice adds weight.
Teacher stories about working with traumatized children:
- Story 1: “Andrew” and daily fresh starts
Kindergarten teacher Marta describes “Andrew,” a student who alternated between affectionate drawings and sudden screaming, acting out, and self‑harm. She learned to stop taking his behavior personally, chart trigger patterns, and start each day as a fresh chance to reconnect, which gradually reduced outbursts and strengthened their bond.
Takeaway: Seeing behavior as communication not personal attack and offering fresh starts can slowly turn chaos into trust. - Story 2: Teachers at the breaking point
Teacher Lawrence testifies to legislators about colleagues being hit, kicked, and bitten by deeply dysregulated students, and children sobbing and insisting they are “not smart enough for kindergarten” when work is beyond their level, leaving staff in tears and desperate for more school mental‑health support.
Takeaway: Trauma‑informed practice must be backed by real supports—teachers cannot carry severe student distress alone. - Story 3: Teaching after Hurricane Katrina
Teacher Valerie, working with students after Hurricane Katrina, recalls entire classes in “survival mode”: kids jumping at loud noises, fixated on safety, cycling between numbness and explosive anger. She slowed academics, built daily check‑ins, and celebrated small steps, like staying in the room during a thunderstorm.
Takeaway: In the wake of trauma, safety and regulation come before content; slowing down and honoring small gains is essential. - Story 4: The student who can’t settle
After a child moved from a violent home into foster care, a teacher saw constant fatigue, clinginess, and jumpiness at every noise, despite assurance the child was now “safe.” With help from school mental‑health staff, she recognized trauma signs and added a calm corner, predictable routines, and brief check‑ins; over time, the child slept better and engaged more.
Takeaway: Persistent exhaustion, startle responses, and clinginess are trauma signals; calm supports and mental‑health help work better than stricter behavior plans. - Story 5: When “defiance” is survival
A teacher, exasperated by a boy who exploded at small corrections, shoved peers, and used sexualized language, learned from a clinician that his history of multiple placements and violence was complex trauma. She shifted to advance warnings, choices, calm private talks, and coordinated trauma‑focused services; aggression and suspensions dropped.
Takeaway: When punishment escalates behavior, it’s a cue to ask “What has this student lived through?” and pursue trauma‑informed supports. - Story 6: A teacher’s own triggers
A teacher who survived childhood abuse noticed going numb when students cried and overreacting to minor misbehavior with a sharp tone, then feeling guilty. Through professional development and counseling, she recognized these as her own triggers and practiced pausing and responding with steady connection; students’ anxiety and acting out decreased.
Takeaway: Teachers’ histories come into the classroom; getting support for your own trauma is key to creating a safe, regulated environment.
Optional Next Steps:
Today, you might:
– Share one anonymized success story—like Andrew’s gradual progress—in a staff meeting to show that empathy and consistency work.
– Replace deficit labels (“problem kid,” “lazy,” “defiant”) with trauma‑aware language (“this student has lived through a lot; what might they need?”) when talking with colleagues.
– Build a small classroom project (writing, art, or presentations) that lets students safely express resilience and growth, if appropriate and supported.
Challenge Stigma and Celebrate Growth
You can be a strong influence in the dialogue about struggling children. Share privacy-protected success stories showing empathy’s impact. Counter blame or shaming; promote language highlighting trauma and potential over deficits. When ready, enable youth sharing via projects, assemblies, or events—hearing them shifts attitudes quickly.
Be a Change Agent
Beyond your classroom, you might:
– Bring trauma‑informed ideas to your union, grade‑level team, or building leadership and ask for ongoing training and mental‑health support.
– Use your voice in conversations with administrators, school boards, and legislators to call for more counselors, social workers, and trauma‑informed policies instead of more zero‑tolerance rules.
– Connect your practice to wider advocacy sharing resources like ACEs materials and trauma‑toolkits at professional development days or family nights.
Many fosters have never had a stable and caring adult in their life. Instead, they come to school with a history of terrible abuse inflicted on them by the most important authority figure in their life. This sets them up (fear, anger, anxiety) for contentious relationships with teachers and other institutional authority figures (you). Noticing, empathizing, setting limits, and seeking help can turn unaddressed trauma into healing and hope. Equipped and supported, teachers bridge gaps for vulnerable kids. Investing in their ability to see and nurture potential strengthens communities and the nation.
Here are high‑value, national resources for educators working with traumatized children:
The Child Trauma Toolkit for Educators from the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN) gives teachers concrete information on how trauma affects learning and behavior and offers specific classroom strategies and self‑care guidance for staff.
The federal Resources Specific to Schools – Child Trauma Toolkit page explains how trauma shows up in classrooms and links to school‑based interventions like CBITS and other evidence‑based programs for traumatized students.
The Trauma‑Informed Schools hub from the National Education Association aggregates ACEs information, trauma basics, and practical tools for creating trauma‑sensitive school climates.
NEA’s companion page on Trauma‑Informed Practices focuses on day‑to‑day classroom practices that build safety, relationships, and regulation for traumatized students.
A Practitioner’s Guide to Educating Traumatized Children offers a detailed, book‑length guide to training staff, adapting discipline, and designing trauma‑informed classroom practice.
The Trauma‑Informed Classroom Strategies manual provides highly concrete ideas (calm corners, adapted assignments, emotional literacy activities) that teachers can plug directly into their rooms.
The Trauma Toolkit for Educators from First Book and the Maryland State Education Association answers common teacher questions and includes ready‑to‑use strategies for supporting students experiencing trauma.
NCTSN’s school collection, NCTSN Resources for Schools, curates toolkits, fact sheets, and training materials specifically for school administrators, teachers, and staff.
The fact sheet Trauma Facts for Educators summarizes typical trauma reactions by age and gives quick “what teachers can do” guidance for the classroom.
The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) – Educator Resources page pulls together educator‑focused readings and tools on how ACEs and toxic stress affect student behavior and learning.
This university guide on Trauma‑Informed Teaching outlines strategies for consistency, flexibility, and relationship‑building that K‑12 and higher‑ed instructors can adapt.
The Trauma‑Informed Teaching Resources page from Minnesota State Mankato introduces how to recognize trauma in learners and offers classroom‑specific strategies for supporting them.
REL Appalachia’s handout Developing trauma‑sensitive classrooms to support students and educators gives quick, evidence‑based strategies (clear routines, calm corners, sensory breaks) that teachers can implement immediately.
This Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs) | Trauma Informed Care collection highlights resources like the Trauma and Learning Policy Initiative’s “Helping Traumatized Children Learn” and modules for building trauma‑sensitive schools.
ASCD’s article Trauma‑Informed Teaching Strategies walks educators through specific relational and instructional moves that help traumatized students feel safe and able to learn.
Blogs and resource hubs for teachers
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Trauma-Informed Teaching & Learning Blog
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About page:
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Ongoing posts sharing thoughts, questions, links, research, and classroom resources related to trauma‑informed teaching and learning.
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Truth for Teachers – Trauma‑Informed Teaching (blog + podcast)
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4 trauma-informed strategies that help kids with ACEs (and benefit your entire class):
https://truthforteachers.com/4-trauma-informed-strategies-that-help-kids-with-aces-and-benefit-your-entire-class/truthforteachers -
A crash course on trauma-informed teaching (podcast):
https://truthforteachers.com/truth-for-teachers-podcast/trauma-informed-teaching/truthforteachers
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Edutopia – Supporting Students With Adverse Childhood Experiences
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https://www.edutopia.org/article/supporting-students-adverse-childhood-experiences/edutopia
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Practical classroom strategies (predictable micro‑routines, identity mentorship, choice‑based learning, somatic reset spaces, narrative outlets).
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Corwin Connect – Guiding Principles for an ACEs‑Sensitive Classroom
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Focuses on relationships, expanded safety (physical, emotional, intellectual), emotional temperature checks, shared power, and teacher self‑care.
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NEA – Trauma‑Informed Schools resources (including Inside a Trauma‑Informed Classroom)
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Trauma-Informed Schools hub:
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Inside a Trauma-Informed Classroom:
https://www.nea.org/nea-today/all-news-articles/inside-trauma-informed-classroomnea -
Includes toolkits and stories that show what trauma‑informed practice looks like day‑to‑day.
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VT-NEA – How to Support Students Who Have Experienced Trauma
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https://vtnea.org/advocating-change/new-from-vt-nea/how-support-students-who-have-experienced-trauma-guide-aspiringvtnea
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Offers practical tips (calming colors, subdued lighting, sensory tools) and points to NEA trauma‑informed resources.
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Empowering Education – Trauma-Informed Teaching: Resources for Schools
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https://empoweringeducation.org/trauma-informed-teaching/empoweringeducation
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Provides curriculum‑linked resources and guidance for trauma‑sensitive practices.
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State/agency ACEs briefs for educators (example: Tennessee Education Brief: ACEs for Educators and Stakeholders)
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https://www.tn.gov/content/dam/tn/dcs/documents/safety/child-abuse-coord-resources/ACEs_Educators_Stakeholders.pdftn
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Three‑page guide on how teachers can change daily decisions and interactions to support self‑regulation and avoid punitive responses.
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Trauma‑Informed Pedagogy resources (higher‑ed but highly applicable)
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Trauma-Informed Pedagogy – Equitable Teaching (University of Michigan):
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Trauma-Informed Pedagogy – Inclusive Teaching Practices (University of Denver):
https://inclusive-teaching.du.edu/inclusive-teaching/content/trauma-informed-pedagogyinclusive-teaching.du
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MAEC – Introduction to Trauma-Informed Classrooms: Inclusive Learning Strategies for Educators
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https://maec.org/resource/introduction-to-trauma-informed-classrooms-inclusive-learning-strategies-for-educators/maec
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Offers everyday practices for safe, predictable environments, self‑regulation strategies, and supportive responses to disclosure.
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Starter reading/listening list for teachers
Here are specific resources that give a teacher a strong foundation in trauma‑informed, ACEs‑aware classroom practice.
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Edutopia – Supporting Students With Adverse Childhood Experiences
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https://www.edutopia.org/article/supporting-students-adverse-childhood-experiences/edutopia
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Practical, classroom‑friendly strategies: predictable micro‑routines, identity mentorship, choice‑based learning, somatic reset spaces, narrative outlets, community contribution, and play.
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Corwin Connect – Guiding Principles for an ACEs‑Sensitive Classroom
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Offers guiding principles teachers can apply immediately: relationship‑building (“2×10” conversations), expanded safety (physical, emotional, intellectual), emotional temperature checks, sharing power, and teacher self‑care.
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Truth for Teachers – 4 Trauma‑Informed Strategies That Help Kids With ACEs
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https://truthforteachers.com/4-trauma-informed-strategies-that-help-kids-with-aces-and-benefit-your-entire-class/truthforteachers
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Lists concrete strategies: tiny self‑regulation breaks, compromise and positive choice, chunking tasks, explicit modeling and expectations, and building playfulness into routines.
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Truth for Teachers Podcast – A Crash Course on Trauma‑Informed Teaching
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https://truthforteachers.com/truth-for-teachers-podcast/trauma-informed-teaching/truthforteachers
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Provides an overall lens for seeing students through a trauma‑informed perspective and offers relationship‑building and conflict‑prevention ideas.
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NEA – Inside a Trauma‑Informed Classroom
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https://www.nea.org/nea-today/all-news-articles/inside-trauma-informed-classroomnea
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Shows what a trauma‑informed classroom looks like in practice (environment, routines, teacher responses), reinforcing that training enables educators to reduce the impact of traumatic experiences.
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VT‑NEA – How to Support Students Who Have Experienced Trauma
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https://vtnea.org/advocating-change/new-from-vt-nea/how-support-students-who-have-experienced-trauma-guide-aspiringvtnea
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Offers simple environmental and relational adjustments (calming colors, sensory tools, key phrases like “Thank you for telling me,” “I’m sorry this happened,” “How can I help?”).
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MAEC – Introduction to Trauma‑Informed Classrooms
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https://maec.org/resource/introduction-to-trauma-informed-classrooms-inclusive-learning-strategies-for-educators/maec
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Summarizes everyday practices for safe and predictable environments, bite‑sized learning, limited choices, and supportive language when students disclose difficult experiences.
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Trauma-Informed Teaching & Learning Blog
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https://traumainformedteaching.blog/about/traumainformedteaching
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A continuing source of posts and reflections; good for ongoing learning and connecting classroom experiences to trauma‑informed theory.
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Tennessee Education Brief – ACEs for Educators and Stakeholders
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https://www.tn.gov/content/dam/tn/dcs/documents/safety/child-abuse-coord-resources/ACEs_Educators_Stakeholders.pdftn
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Offers a policy‑oriented but teacher‑friendly guide on integrating ACEs education, social‑emotional learning, and self‑regulation skills into daily teaching.
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Trauma‑Informed Pedagogy – Equitable Teaching (University of Michigan)
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https://sites.lsa.umich.edu/equitable-teaching/trauma-informed-pedagogy/sites.lsa.umich
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Provides a broader lens linking trauma‑informed practice to equity and racial justice, helpful for aligning classroom strategies with systemic fairness.
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References
- BOOK: The Deepest Well (Nadine Burke Harris)
- Harvard Center on the Developing Child – work on toxic stress and resilience
- U.S. Department of Education – Civil Rights Data Collection (discipline and disparity)
- National Child Traumatic Stress Network – Trauma‑Informed Schools framework
- National CASA/GAL Association – impact reports
- Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL)
- Pew Charitable Trusts and Annie E. Casey Foundation – education and child‑welfare policy research
When you see what teachers carry stories like Andrew’s outbursts, the student who can’t settle, the child whose “defiance” is really survival, it becomes clear that trauma‑informed classrooms are not a luxury; they are a lifeline. KARA exists to make that lifeline stronger by telling the truth about what students live through, amplifying teacher voices, and pushing for systems that back trauma‑informed practice with real resources, not just slogans. If this article helped you name what you’re seeing or gave you one new idea for what teachers can do for traumatized students, please turn that insight into action: support KARA’s work with a donation of any size, share these resources with colleagues and school leaders, and bring our reporting into your conversations with unions, boards, and legislators. Your support keeps this work independent and accessible, and it helps move us toward schools where every child and every educator has the safety, understanding, and support they need to heal and thrive.
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