LGBTQ Foster Care & Ground Truths

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National data on LGBTQ kids in foster care is very hard to find.

This Star Tribune article shares Foster Advocates reporting that one third of youth 14-26 in MN foster care identify as LGBTQ. Some of these youth are “Isolated for their safety in foster group homes”. Few LGBTQ fosters have access to resources or cultural connections.

“Making Google (from the article) their only teacher about their own sexual identity” is terrifying for a child. Being taken from the only home they have ever known and brought to live with people they’ve never seen before is traumatizing.

Imagine being ten or twelve years old living with the anxiety of being removed from your home and how alone and anxious you would feel in a strange place with people you don’t know.

Add to that the scarieness of knowing your gender identification is frightening to you.

Recent surveys by the Casey Foundation and the NY Administration of Children’s Services show that about a third of kids in NY’s foster care identify as LGBTQ and nationally, about 24% do. 40% of homeless kids in NY City identify as LGBTQ and 42% of them had been in foster care.

40% of LGBTQ youth ‘seriously considered’ suicide.

This NY Times article focuses on how hard life is for them. Many of these youth and children are in foster care because their parents rejected them.

Many are homeless, depressed and leading dysfunctional lives.

Every year about 12,000 children aged 5-14 years old are admitted to psychiatric hospital units for suicidal behavior. This and all the information following are PRE COVID. Post COVID data will likely be a multiple of this number as the pandemic lockdown has increased stress, anxiety and domestic violence all across the country.

Young children who have attempted suicide are up to 6 times more likely to attempt suicide again in adolescence (Tishler, 2007, p.812).

Numerous studies suggest that the number of children who die by suicide is higher than the reported figures

There is no data for destructive behaviors like cutting or apparent attempts for serious self-harm among foster children. If you know at risk children, this information may help you save a life.

Suicide is the 4^th leading cause of death among children between the ages of 10 and 14.

Alaska has the highest rate of teen suicides

In the past 45 years, the WHO says, suicide rates have increased by 60 percent worldwide and it predicts these deaths will rise to 1.5 million per year by 2020.

The worldwide statistics, of course, do not address the difference between suicides of foster Children

Adolescents who had been in foster carewere nearly two and a half times more likely to seriously consider suicide than other youth (Pilowsky & Wu, 2006).
Adolescents who had been in foster care were nearly four times more likely to have attempted suicide than other youth (Pilowsky & Wu, 2006).
• Experiencing childhood abuse or trauma increased the risk of attempted suicide 2- to 5-fold (Dube et al., 2001).
• Among 8-year-olds who were maltreated or at risk for maltreatment, nearly 10% reported wanting to kill themselves (Thompson, 2005).
• Adverse childhood experiences play a major role in suicide attempts. One study found that approximately two thirds of suicide attempts may be attributable to abusive or traumatic childhood experiences (Dube et al., 2001).

Suicide is a real issue in foster care and one we should not dismiss lightly. This is not a matter we are willing to discuss until we read stories of foster children like Gabriel Myers, a seven-year-old Florida boy who hung himself in his foster parent’s house.

Suicide is the 3^rd leading cause of death in New York for children 5-15 years old

Teen Suicide have increased 56% since 2007. Children in foster care suffer far more self-harm and suicide than other children.

What would you say to the 12 year old foster child who told you how he plans to suicide by cop? Or to the mother of the young girl you speak for in court that told her child “I wish you’d never been born”? Kendrea Johnson was 6, Gabriel Meirs was 7

and Zakiah Satterfield was 9 when they suicided. These are just a few of many attempts. We only know about the successful attempts.

Words don’t come easy.

This survey of 12,000 LGBTQ youth identifies the extreme stress, anxiety, rejection and overwhelming feeling of depression and danger these children grow up with.

70% of them have been depressed and felt hopeless in the last few days &
95% of them have trouble sleeping.
74% of them do not feel safe in the classroom
5% say their teacher are supportive of the LGBTQ community.
The vast majority of them report family members saying bad things about LGBTQ people

At least 22 transgender people have been murdered in 2019 (their stories)

Library of LGBTQ child abuse articles in the READ MORE

Children’s hospitals are the latest target of anti-LGBTQ harassment – NPR

NPR

Children’s hospitals are the latest target of anti-LGBTQ harassment … media outlets casting gender-affirming care as child abuse and mutilation.

LGBTQ Foster Care & Ground Truths

Alert your State Representative to the needs of at risk children where you live.

“Making Google (from the article) their only teacher about their own sexual identity” is terrifying for a child. Being taken from the only home they have ever known and brought to live with people they’ve never seen before is traumatizing.

Author: Mike Tikkanen